18 Classic Signs of Cheating: Bust a Cheater Spouse!

The indicative signs of infidelity…

There are certain indicators that point to the real possibility that your partner is cheating on you… Are you aware of all the important signs of cheating?

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Here are the classic signs of a cheating spouse.

  1. Excessive and unexplained use of a car. – If your spouse is more secretive about how he/she spends his/her time when away from home, then it could be a sign that he/she is hiding something. If you notice that your spouse takes more time than usual to go to the grocery store or the bank, or if you notice that he/she is taking more trips than usual, then it could be a sign of a cheating spouse.

  2. Paying special attention to their appearance all of a sudden. – This is one of the classic signs of cheating! If your spouse suddenly starts taking more time to get ready, then it could be a sign that he/she is trying to look good for someone else. If he/she buys new clothes or buys new fragrances, then it could be a sign of a cheating spouse.

  3. Your partner stops wearing their wedding ring. -If your spouse is not wearing their wedding ring, then it could be a sign that he/she is having an affair.

  4. Taking and initiating phone calls while ensuring that you are out of hearing distance … and deleting numbers from the caller I.D. – Another classic sign that your spouse is hiding something from you and that is probably cheating on you.

  5. Going out for long walks/runs or making frequent arrangements with ‘a business buddy’ to meet after work hours.

  6. Men cheating may carry condoms (often in their car, jacket pocket, or briefcase). – If your boyfriend/husband doesn’t use condoms when you have sexual intercourse, but still keeps them in their car or pocket then there is a high probability that he’s a cheater, and you should confront him about it.

  7. Uncharacteristic changes in your partner’s attitude. – If your spouse starts acting differently, then it could be a sign that he/she is feeling guilty about something. If he/she starts to become more critical of you, then it could be a sign of a cheating spouse.

  8. Has become uncaring or neutral about your opinions and interests. – If your spouse has become uncaring or neutral about your opinions and interests, then it could be a sign that he/she has lost interest in you and that’s a sign of cheating.

  9. A cheating wife may have birth-control pills hidden in her drawer, and you’ve had a vasectomy. – There’s no reason for her to have birth-control pills if you’ve had a vasectomy. This is another classic sign that your spouse is cheating.

  10. Your partner’s clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. – If your spouse’s clothes suddenly start smelling of an unfamiliar perfume then you should be worried cause he/she may be having an affair.

  11. You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt. – If it’s a one-off then it probably isn’t something to worry too much, but if you see lipstick on his shirt more than 3 times then you’ve probably got a cheater husband in your house

  12. Interest in sex has changed. – Some guilty partners want to have more sex with their spouse because their sex drive may have increased because of their extramarital activity. Or alternatively, they may not want sex with you at all because, strange as it may seem, inwardly they may feel that it would be a violation of their new relationship.

  13. Has your partner become secretive all of a sudden? Have they clammed up and don’t share anything with you anymore?If your partner has become secretive all of a sudden, it may be cause for concern. They may be clamming up and not sharing anything with you anymore, which could be a sign that something is troubling them or he/she is cheating. If you’re worried about your partner’s wellbeing, it’s important to talk to them and see if they’re open to sharing what’s on their mind.

  14. You get calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice.If you’re getting calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice, there’s a good chance your spouse is cheating on you. Don’t ignore the signs – take action and confront them about it. It may be difficult, but it’s better to know the truth than to live in ignorance. But it also can be that someone called the wrong number.

  15. Have their attitudes changed all of a sudden? Are they interested in things that didn’t interest them previously or alternatively have they suddenly lost interest in matters that did previously interest them? If you notice your spouse’s attitudes have suddenly changed, it could be a sign that they’re cheating. They may be interested in things they never were before, or they may have lost interest in things that used to interest them. Either way, it’s a red flag that something may be going on behind your back.

  16. Coming home from work later. Calling often to let you know that they will be home late because of a heavy workload or an unscheduled meeting. – Take this with a grain of salt, as it can also be that you partner is really working longer hours to meet deadlines.

  17. Avoids telling you where they are going. Leaving the house abruptly for long periods without apparent reason or explanation.

  18. Changes in your relationship. Do you still converse regularly, discuss your problems and interests and enjoy each other’s company? Do you still enjoy a joke together and share the odd kiss? Does your partner tell you regularly that they love you?

If there have been any major changes in your relationship then these changes may be signs of your spouse cheating on you with another person.

Bear in mind however that you had better be sure of your ground before you accuse your partner of having an affair. If you don’t have irrefutable proof, or your proof is just circumstantial, the most likely response you will get is denial.

Don’t confront your partner without real evidence because you will only alert them to your concerns and if they are guilty of an extramarital affair it will only serve to make them more careful to cover their tracks in the future. And if you are wrong you have effectively destroyed their trust in you.

If you are serious about putting an end to the fears and doubts that are plaguing your relationship, it’s time you took control.

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