The indicative signs of infidelity…
There are certain indicators that point to the real possibility that your partner is cheating on you… Are you aware of all the important signs of cheating?
Here are the common signs of a cheating spouse.
Excessive and unexplained use of a car.
Paying special attention to their appearance all of a sudden. – This is one of the classic signs of cheating!
Your partner stops wearing their wedding ring.
Taking and initiating phone calls while ensuring that you are out of hearing distance … and deleting numbers from the caller I.D.
Going out for long walks/runs or making frequent arrangements with ‘a business buddy’ to meet after work hours.
Men cheating may carries condoms (often in their car, jacket pocket or brief case).
Uncharacteristic changes in your partners attitude.
Has become uncaring or neutral about your opinions and interests.
A cheating wife may have birth-control pills hidden in her drawer, and you’ve had a vasectomy.
Your partner’s clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave.
You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.
Interest in sex has changed. Some guilty partners want to have more sex with their spouse because their sex drive may have increased because of their extramarital activity. Or alternatively they may not want sex with you at all because, strange as it may seem, inwardly they may feel that it would be a violation of their new relationship.
Has your partner become secretive all of a sudden? Have they clamed up and don’t share anything with you anymore?
You get calls where the caller hangs up when they hear your voice.
Have their attitudes changed all of a sudden? Are they interested in things that didn’t interest them previously or alternatively have they suddenly lost interest in matters that did previously interest them?
Coming home from work later. Calling often to let you know that they will be home late because of a heavy workload or an unscheduled meeting.
Avoiding telling you where they are going. Leaving the house abruptly for long periods without apparent reason or explanation.
Changes in your relationship. Do you still converse regularly, discuss your problems and interests and enjoy each others company? Do you still enjoy a joke together and share the odd kiss? Does your partner tell you regularly that they love you?
If there has been any major changes in your relationship then these changes may be signs of your spouse cheating on you with another person.
Bear in mind however that you had better be sure of your ground before you accuse your partner of having an affair. If you don’t have irrefutable proof, or your proof is just circumstantial, the most likely response you will get is denial.
Don’t confront your partner without real evidence because you will only alert them to your concerns and if they are guilty of an extramarital affair it will only serve to make them more careful to cover their tracks in future. And if you are wrong you have effectively destroyed their trust in you.
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